Tellin lies is the easy way, the real honesty is hard and it can be dangerious. Being honest is costs a price and you have to pay that. Honesty is not always the right way as you learnt. Only painful life is true, and truth is painful of course, pain is a reflex to being alive. There no human being which is completely opacitied. Dilemmas, pleasure, desires and feelings makes us telling lie. All right pour out your innards and bleed. That is the price of the truth, time will recover your wounds and you can tell new lies :)