....then comes marriage, then comes a baby in the baby carriage, then comes an 30 year loan and the pressure of having children and all of your car payments and accumulating debt and the panic of life passing you by and not chasing your dreams and maybe they want a divorce and watching others succeed around you who seem totally perfect and with their perfect tan and all you've got is graying hair a concerning spot on your skin and more wrinkles and a bigger waist and all of your financial burdens and the mistakes you've made and now your kids don't call and your caring for your parents on and on and on and on and on and on and on and on.