The idealistic dreamer, the one who loves to love, who sees where there is no light. The rational, analytical, intellectual, always weighing the pros and cons, the one who brings an extra flashlight. The Rational seeks a mindmate, the Idealistic seeks a soulmate.
You are who you are, you can't choose your प्रकृति (Pakriti), that is determined at the moment of conception. Better accept it as it is and don't try to oppose it.