How is it that there are billions of us here, and most of us still feel unwanted and lonely?
We are constantly in sight, but rarely seen on Social media — a scene without a director and without a safe backstage. You can talk, but you are interpreted, not heard, evaluated, not sustained, compared, not accompanied. The human psyche does not need attention, but resonance. A real contact. A like is not a response. Viewing is not a contact.
We were taught to be functional, but not alive. We know how to work, serve, and be "normal." But it's like we're in the dystopias of Huxley and Orwell. We don't know how to be vulnerable without self-destruction, to be slow without shame, to be in crisis without self-blame.
external injuries are visible, internal injuries are ignored by society But the main thing is by ourselves. I will add: they are also being shamed.
The internal supervisor is a collective voice. It's not yours. This is a salad of:
- parental broken files of the psyche and their authority, which dominates the psyche. Although why do we get stuck in the role of a child when we've grown up for a long time?
- The social cult of productivity, which knocks you out of your tango rhythm and imperceptibly you find yourself in Formula 1, burning out like an unprepared rubber
- Comparison injuries,
- Economic pressure. When you're in a crisis, it activates as a "security service," but it acts like the Gestapo. Important: He can only be exposed and disarmed by attention.
