In one way or another, we're all players. That's how today's society works. Some people play fair and some don't. It depends on education, general moral principles. The goal is one and that's victory. But I think the real player will act according to the rules, making the opponent realize that the game is over and he lost. It doesn't matter if you play white or black. There are two options, what belonged to you will be mine, or I will make it so that you can not make your next move. I'll just lock you out.