Life is painful and messed up, gets complicated at the worst times.
Lots of times people just let themselves get lost, dropping into a wide open, huge abyss. We have to push through all that hurts us, work past all our memories that are haunting us. Sometimes the things that hurt us are the things that make us strongest.
A life without experience, is no life at all. And that's why I tell everyone that, even when it hurts, never stop yourself from living.