It is difficult to understand how two people can look at the same thing, yet find fault in each other. It is hard to quantify when someone has done something wrong or right, Or am I qualified? To express my frustration.
I find the dichotomy of being upset with someone and wanting to fix things, yet also wanting them to prove that they are sorry, a tough one. It is hard to meet halfway and compromise on issues that seem so dichotomous.