Binary Black Hole Inspiral

In the event that a pair of black holes were to merge, an immense amount of energy should be given off as gravitational waves, with distinctive waveforms that can be calculated using general relativity. , The black holes will merge once they are close enough. ,,, I wonder .. I look in the mirror, there is another me before my eyes. and I ask .. Will the two of us merge once we are close enough? or we'll just try to disappear from each other? ,,, I am curious ..

and I ask ..

*the talks between me and my own reflection. like no others in this universe I can talk to.